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The Modern Guide to Grooming and Handling

Calm brushing, nails, baths and vet visits

Every dog needs to be brushed, checked, bathed and examined at some point, and for many dogs those moments are a struggle. They wriggle at the brush, hide from the clippers or have to be held down at the vet. It doesn't have to be like that. With slow, kind practice at home, most dogs can learn to be calm about handling, and even enjoy it.

This guide explains cooperative care, the approach good vets, groomers and zoos use, and shows you how to read your dog, set up for success and make touch feel good. It teaches your dog a start signal, like a chin rest, so they can tell you when they're ready, then takes you step by step through brushing, nails, ears, eyes, teeth, baths, the groomer and the vet, with help for puppies, older dogs and nervous dogs.

Is nail trimming a battle in your house? Cooperative care for every dog: calm touch, brushing, nails, teeth, ears, baths, the groomer and the vet, step by step.

I've been training dogs for over 30 years, and I wrote this the way I'd explain it if we were sat at your kitchen table together.

Inside the book: 60 pages, 10 chapters, 2 formats (PDF and EPUB). Print and keep: a handling tracker, a weekly grooming plan, a body check record and a quick-reference page.

What's inside

  • A "What's the problem?" finder that points you to the right chapter

  • Why handling matters, and why holding a dog down backfires

  • Reading your dog: relaxed signs, early worry signs, stop signs and the consent test

  • Setting up: a calm space, a grooming mat, the right time and introducing tools

  • First touches: touch then treat, a body map, paws, ears, mouth and gentle restraint

  • Giving your dog a say with the chin rest and other start signals

  • Brushing and coat care for every coat type, including mats and moulting

  • Nail care: clippers, grinders, the quick, one nail a day and the scratch board

  • Ears, eyes and teeth, plus giving tablets and drops

  • Baths, drying, the groomer, the vet, muzzle training and medication

  • Help for puppies, older dogs, nervous and rescue dogs, and a weekly routine

What's inside The Modern Guide to Grooming and Handling: three real pages from the book, fanned out

Pages to print and keep

  • A handling tracker for every part of the body

  • A weekly grooming plan

  • A body check record to show your vet

  • A quick-reference page with the rules

Why this guide is different

  • It gives your dog a say, so they don't need to struggle to be heard

  • It never uses holding down, telling off or punishing a growl

  • It builds up through the body first, so tricky jobs like nails get easier

  • It has realistic options, like one nail a day and the scratch board

  • It's built on games plus structure, with reward-based training and no punishment

Who it's for

Families with a puppy who's new to handling, a dog who struggles with grooming, nail trims or vet visits, an older dog who needs gentler care, or a nervous rescue. It works for any breed and any coat.

About the author: Renee Patience with her boxer Kookie. Qualified behaviourist and founder of Paws Academy Dog Training & Behaviour, Mayo. Over 30 years training dogs, Dog Trainer of the Year 2025 at the National Ireland Pet Awards, competed at Crufts and Olympia.

What you get

A 60-page PDF and an EPUB in one ZIP file, emailed to you straight after checkout. Read it on your phone, tablet, e-reader or computer, and print the pages at the back.

The Modern Guide to Grooming and Handling

€9.99Price
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