How To Prepare Your Dog For Holiday Visitors
- Paws Academy

- 5 days ago
- 9 min read

Welcoming guests over the holidays can feel exciting and stressful in equal measure. Your home takes on a different rhythm. Doors open more often. Extra voices fill the rooms. Food sits out on tables that your dog normally ignores but suddenly smells irresistible. It is a lovely time of year, yet the change in pace can be a lot for a dog to take in. Some dogs rush around and greet everyone with great enthusiasm. Others worry about new faces or unexpected movement. Some feel a mix of both.
Preparing your dog ahead of time helps the whole season run more smoothly. It gives your dog clear information, support and confidence. It also gives your visitors a calm environment and reduces the chances of any awkward moments. This post walks you through a practical and friendly plan to help your dog feel ready for holiday visitors, whether you are expecting one or twenty.
Understanding how your dog may feel
Before you plan anything, pause for a moment and think about your dogās natural outlook. Every dog responds differently to a busy house. Some dogs love attention and trot around greeting everyone. Others prefer to sit quietly and observe. Some feel overwhelmed when people arrive, especially if several come through the door at once. A dog who is usually relaxed can become more jumpy when normal routines shift.
You know your dog best. Think about the situations that usually trigger excitement or worry. If your dog races to the door when the bell rings, you can expect that to happen when visitors arrive. If your dog gets unsettled when the living room fills up, you will want to create a calm space elsewhere. Thinking ahead makes the next steps easier.
Preparing your dogās safe space
Every dog benefits from having a spot where they can rest without interruption. This becomes especially important during busy seasons. A safe space can be a crate kept open, a bed placed in a quiet corner, or a separate room with a baby gate. The key is consistency. Your dog needs a place where no one steps over them or tries to cuddle them when they want a break.
A few days before guests arrive, start encouraging your dog to relax in that space. Sit nearby for a bit, speak gently and offer something your dog enjoys chewing. A dog who sees the area as peaceful will be more likely to choose it when the house gets lively. If the safe space is in a separate room, practice short periods of calm time so your dog is comfortable being there while people are in the main part of the house.
Introducing holiday sounds early
Holiday visitors often bring noise. Suitcases roll across the floor. Children chatter. Adults speak louder when catching up. Doors open and close more than usual. If your dog is sensitive to sound, these changes can make the day feel overwhelming.
A simple way to prepare is to introduce some of these sounds gradually. You can play recordings of visitors chatting or children laughing at a low volume while your dog relaxes. You can practise quiet door knocks or ring the bell a few times during the week before your guests arrive. Keep sessions short and relaxed. Offer praise when your dog remains calm. Over time, your dog learns that these sounds are not a sign of trouble.
Practising polite greetings
Many dogs struggle with greetings, especially when excitement runs high. Jumping up, barking or pacing at the door are common behaviours. They are not signs of bad manners. They are signs that the dog feels stimulated and does not yet understand what you want.
To prepare, spend a few minutes each day practising greeting routines. Start with one person approaching the door. Ask your dog to sit or stand calmly before the person enters. Reward any moment of stillness. If your dog cannot stay settled, take a few steps back and try again. The aim is to build a simple routine that your dog will recognise when visitors arrive.
If your dog finds this difficult, you can use management instead. Keep your dog on a lead when the door opens. Place a baby gate across the hallway. Ask visitors to ignore the dog until you give the go ahead. A calm entry sets the tone for the whole visit.
Setting clear boundaries for guests
Visitors sometimes have habits that confuse dogs. Some people open the door without thinking. Some lean over a dog or offer food without asking. Others get excited and encourage behaviours you are trying to reduce. Most of the time, they simply do not realise what your dog needs.
Before the visit, think about the rules you want in place. You might prefer guests to avoid feeding your dog from the table. You might want children to give the dog space or ask before they stroke them. You might want visitors to walk in slowly and avoid sudden movement.
You do not need a long speech. A polite message before they arrive can help. Something simple like, please ignore the dog at first while I help him settle, works well. Guests appreciate guidance and it keeps the visit calm.
Helping your dog adjust to unfamiliar people
Dogs use scent, posture and movement to understand new people. When someone enters your home for the first time, the dog works hard to figure out what they should expect. Some dogs approach confidently. Others prefer to keep a little distance. Both responses are normal.
If your dog is wary around unfamiliar people, give them time and space. Do not pull the dog toward the visitor. Instead, let the dog approach on their own terms. You can give your visitor something neutral to do, such as sitting quietly or placing a treat on the floor without making eye contact. This helps your dog feel in control.
If your dog is enthusiastic and runs up to greet everyone, keep greetings calm. Guide your dog into a sit or a gentle stand. Visitors can lower their hand slowly for the dog to sniff. Fast movement or loud voices can raise excitement levels, so encourage steady interaction.
Managing children and dogs together
Children often bring high energy and unpredictable movement into the home. Some dogs find this exciting. Others feel uneasy. Even calm dogs can get startled when a child runs past or hugs them without warning.
It helps to set up clear rules for both sides. Tell children to stroke the dog gently on the chest or shoulder. Never let children climb on the dog or pull at them. Always supervise, even if your dog is normally relaxed.
Make sure your dog has the option to leave the room. Do not block exits or hold the dog still for children. Choice is key. A dog who knows they can step away will remain calmer and more confident.
Preparing for food temptations
Holiday gatherings often involve food placed on coffee tables, counters and dining tables. Dogs notice this quickly. Even dogs who do not usually bother the kitchen might try their luck when new scents drift through the air.
Prepare by setting clear rules before guests arrive. Keep food out of reach whenever possible. Cover plates. Keep snacks on higher surfaces. Ask visitors not to leave plates on the floor or low tables.
Practise āleave itā with your dog during the weeks before your visitors arrive. Use simple, positive training. Offer a reward when your dog looks away from the tempting item. This skill is helpful all year, but becomes particularly useful during holidays.
Giving your dog exercise before guests arrive
A well exercised dog tends to feel more settled when the house becomes busy. A long walk, a game of fetch or a sniffing session in the garden can help your dog release energy before visitors arrive. Sniffing activities are especially helpful because they encourage relaxation.
Try to plan exercise earlier in the day. You do not want your dog to arrive home over stimulated just before the doorbell rings. Aim for gentle, steady activity that keeps your dog calm but satisfied.
Creating downtime during the visit
It is tempting to keep the dog in the same room as your visitors so they feel part of everything. Sometimes this works well. Other times it leads to stress. Most dogs need breaks during long visits.
Watch for signs of tiredness. These might include yawning, turning away, licking lips or pacing. When you notice these signs, guide your dog to their safe space for a rest. You can give them a chew or a calm activity to keep them settled. Short breaks help your dog stay relaxed throughout the visit.
Managing greetings throughout the day
Visitors may come and go. Deliveries may arrive. More knocks on the door might happen than usual. Repeated greetings can increase stress levels for dogs.
To help, keep your greeting routine consistent. If you use a lead or a baby gate, stick with it. If you ask your dog to sit and wait for calmness, use the same approach each time. This tells your dog exactly what to expect. Predictable routines make the day feel easier.
Planning for overnight guests
If guests are staying overnight, there are extra steps to take. Your dog might find it odd that someone moves around upstairs late at night. Footsteps at unusual times can be unsettling.
Introduce your dog to the guest room before the visitors arrive. Let them sniff the space so it feels familiar. Keep your dogās sleeping routine as normal as possible. If your dog usually sleeps in a separate room, keep that in place. Sudden changes can lead to restlessness.
Ask your guests to keep their bedroom door closed to avoid early morning visits from the dog. This prevents confusion and helps everyone sleep better.
Handling travel tiredness
Sometimes you have a dog who travels with you to another home for the holidays. The journey itself can leave a dog tired or unsettled. Give your dog time to decompress once you arrive. Let them stretch their legs and explore the new environment calmly.
Bring familiar items such as a bed, favourite toy or blanket. The smell of home provides comfort in a new place. Keep feeding times similar to the usual routine so your dog feels grounded.
Staying calm yourself
Dogs pick up on your mood very easily. If you feel rushed or tense, your dog will sense it. Try to take a few minutes for yourself before visitors arrive. Prepare the environment, take a breath and remind yourself that you have a plan in place.
Speak in a calm, steady tone. Move slowly when guiding your dog. Your own behaviour can help your dog settle and understand that everything is under control.
When to consider extra support
Some dogs find holiday visitors extremely stressful. If your dog shows intense fear, growling or hiding for long periods, it may be worth seeking support from a behaviour professional. There is no shame in this. Some dogs need extra guidance to cope with changes in their environment.
A behaviourist can help you build a tailored plan and make the holiday season feel easier for everyone. The earlier you ask for help, the more time you have to prepare your dog with confidence and kindness. Please reach out to us if you need extra support, we are always happy to help!
Small touches that make a big difference
Tiny adjustments often have the biggest impact. Keeping the music at a moderate volume, providing stable surfaces so visitors do not trip, and using pet gates in busy areas all help create a calm home. Offer your dog short breaks outside for fresh air. Let them sit near you if they seek comfort.
During the visit, notice what works well. Some dogs enjoy resting near the table while people chat. Others prefer a quieter corner. Tailor the day to your dogās needs rather than expecting them to cope with a long, busy stretch without support.
Practising the plan ahead of time
Any new routine becomes easier with practice. A week before the visit, do a short run through. Knock on the door, walk into the house as if you were a guest and guide your dog through the greeting routine. Practise moving your dog to their safe space. Test how they react to different sounds.
These short sessions help your dog understand what you want. They also help you spot any parts of the plan that need adjusting. A few minutes of preparation can make the actual day feel much smoother.
Keeping the environment stable
Dogs thrive on predictability. While your home may get busier during the holidays, you can still keep key routines steady. Feed your dog at the same times. Take your usual walks. Keep bedtime consistent. Even if the day is lively, these stable points act as anchors for your dog.
Visitors can bring gifts, scents and activity, but your dog will feel more settled if the core of their day stays the same. You do not need perfection. A little consistency goes a long way.
Ending the day calmly
When the visitors leave, your dog might feel tired, wired or somewhere in between. Allow a quiet period afterwards. Offer a short walk or gentle play. Give your dog a chance to unwind and return to their normal rhythm. This helps the dog process the day and prepares them for a peaceful nightās rest.
Conclusion
Preparing your dog for holiday visitors is not about strict training or high expectations. It is about giving your dog clear information, practical support and steady routines. When you plan ahead, you reduce the stress on both sides. You help your dog feel safe and confident. You also make the visit more enjoyable for your guests.
With a calm approach and a bit of practice, your dog can handle the holiday season with ease. The aim is not perfection. The aim is comfort, safety and a relaxed home. When you meet your dogās needs, the whole holiday feels smoother.





